This could really be applied to treatments towards maid.
According to Sura An Nisaa'/ 4.36,, we should be good to our servants or anyone within our control.
it could also apply on how an employer should treat their employee.
Here it said that we should give them food as what we eat for ourselves and gives them clothing as what we would wear ourselves.
Never hurt them as they are god creation as well.
Prophet Muhammad s.a.w. said that we should at least forgive the fault of our servants up to 70 times a day.
Definitely our prophet wants us to be patience and be able to forgive other people mistakes as we are not perfect either.
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Friday, May 15, 2009
Prophet Muhammad s.a.w. Physical
To love him is to know him...
This is taken by the description given by prophet's companion like Ali bin Abu Talib, Anas bin Malik, Abu Jahifah and such.
Prophet Muhammad s.a.w. is not too tall yet not too short.
Nor does he is fat or too thin but has a strong built.
He has a broad shoulder, pinkish round face, wide black eyes and long eyelashes.
He is very good looking, nice voice and like to smile a lot.
His laughter is often just a smile.
His hair is not straight yet not curly.
His palm is even softer than silk.
This is taken by the description given by prophet's companion like Ali bin Abu Talib, Anas bin Malik, Abu Jahifah and such.
Prophet Muhammad s.a.w. is not too tall yet not too short.
Nor does he is fat or too thin but has a strong built.
He has a broad shoulder, pinkish round face, wide black eyes and long eyelashes.
He is very good looking, nice voice and like to smile a lot.
His laughter is often just a smile.
His hair is not straight yet not curly.
His palm is even softer than silk.
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Thursday, May 14, 2009
Children and religion
in order to have your child to have a strong ground and belief in the religion, we can definitely introduce them to the religion slowly...
summarize the history of the religion to the child....
ensure the child inquiry on why this religion and not the other is answered....
Introduce them little by little to religion comparison...
Instill in the child that god exist and the world itself is the proof....
once he/she belief that god exist, differences between religions and its history and the need of the religion in life, therefore he/she will be willing to practice the religion and definitely have a strong sense of belief in his/her religion....
It will be a very weak approach if you start otherwise, which is by way of asking him/her to practice first without any understanding on the religion.....both should go together....
summarize the history of the religion to the child....
ensure the child inquiry on why this religion and not the other is answered....
Introduce them little by little to religion comparison...
Instill in the child that god exist and the world itself is the proof....
once he/she belief that god exist, differences between religions and its history and the need of the religion in life, therefore he/she will be willing to practice the religion and definitely have a strong sense of belief in his/her religion....
It will be a very weak approach if you start otherwise, which is by way of asking him/her to practice first without any understanding on the religion.....both should go together....
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Wednesday, May 13, 2009
Peaceful war in Islam
Seeing the war in Palestine make me wonder and hope for people all around the world to adopt an Islamic way of War.....
Places that have war will still be in peace and harmony if we do it Islamic way.
No kids will be harm
No woman will be killed
No elderly will be harm
No building will be destroyed
No trees will be chopped
No one that do not wish to be involved in the war will be killed or harrassed
No injustice and cruelty done
War Islam way is way way way more civilized than what civilized community know of......
Places that have war will still be in peace and harmony if we do it Islamic way.
No kids will be harm
No woman will be killed
No elderly will be harm
No building will be destroyed
No trees will be chopped
No one that do not wish to be involved in the war will be killed or harrassed
No injustice and cruelty done
War Islam way is way way way more civilized than what civilized community know of......
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Tuesday, May 12, 2009
Regardless what You are
Regardless what your religion, race, colour and background we should never fall apart and fight with each other because of our differences.
It should never be the reason to start a war and fight.
It should never be the reason to discriminate.
It should never be the reason to doubt each other.
It should always be the reason to get to know each other better.
It should always be the reason for peace.
It should never be the reason to start a war and fight.
It should never be the reason to discriminate.
It should never be the reason to doubt each other.
It should always be the reason to get to know each other better.
It should always be the reason for peace.
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Monday, May 11, 2009
what faith is
Faith should be from "our creator".
A complete religion should provide us the believer with the proper ways of leading and living our life regardless the era you are in.
It should gives us guidance because only God knows whats best for us.
Thus here Islam provide you with complete guidance of living your life the best way and provide solution for every situation and problems.
Quran can never be written by human and no one can rewritten it to be as good as it is now. Thus its content can never be changed and cannot be changed.
Allah s.w.t. is the only god.
Islam is the way of life.
A complete religion should provide us the believer with the proper ways of leading and living our life regardless the era you are in.
It should gives us guidance because only God knows whats best for us.
Thus here Islam provide you with complete guidance of living your life the best way and provide solution for every situation and problems.
Quran can never be written by human and no one can rewritten it to be as good as it is now. Thus its content can never be changed and cannot be changed.
Allah s.w.t. is the only god.
Islam is the way of life.
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Sunday, May 10, 2009
God still Loves You
Some people might receive other people advice or criticism well but others might not....
hard to accept what other people say about you, especially if you think that they are so dead wrong.....
But have you taken the time to think it through, whatever was said to you...
Most may have not or just brush the opinion aside...
But I really treasure those comments and advice....
As hurtful as it might get sometimes, I believe there is maybe the tiniest truth in it...
From 100%, maybe 1% of the advice is useful for me to improve myself for the better....
Come on, we cannot be that perfect..its good to constantly improve ourselves...
don't be to proud and think so highly of yourself....
So constructive comments are always welcome....
It is like an advice from God and it shows that God still love You....
P.S.: You should at least go listen to a religious speech once in 40 days so that your heart will always be open and easy to accept any advice and able to improve yourself.
hard to accept what other people say about you, especially if you think that they are so dead wrong.....
But have you taken the time to think it through, whatever was said to you...
Most may have not or just brush the opinion aside...
But I really treasure those comments and advice....
As hurtful as it might get sometimes, I believe there is maybe the tiniest truth in it...
From 100%, maybe 1% of the advice is useful for me to improve myself for the better....
Come on, we cannot be that perfect..its good to constantly improve ourselves...
don't be to proud and think so highly of yourself....
So constructive comments are always welcome....
It is like an advice from God and it shows that God still love You....
P.S.: You should at least go listen to a religious speech once in 40 days so that your heart will always be open and easy to accept any advice and able to improve yourself.
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Saturday, May 9, 2009
Forgiveness
In Islam, if you made a mistake with a human being you should seek for their forgiveness for he/she you have hurt.
If you have made sin, seek forgiveness from Allah s.w.t. and repent to not repeat the same mistake again.
And it is only fair to correct your mistake and help the person you have hurt.
It is not hard to seek forgiveness from Allah s.w.t.
You do not need any intermediaries. You do not have to search for a person who hold a certificate/degree/master/phd holder for giving forgiveness in sin in order to seek forgiveness.
If you have made sin, seek forgiveness from Allah s.w.t. and repent to not repeat the same mistake again.
And it is only fair to correct your mistake and help the person you have hurt.
It is not hard to seek forgiveness from Allah s.w.t.
You do not need any intermediaries. You do not have to search for a person who hold a certificate/degree/master/phd holder for giving forgiveness in sin in order to seek forgiveness.
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Friday, May 8, 2009
True Religion
Today, there are so many religion that you can get easily confused and gave up hope on finding the true religion.
So which is the true religion?
A religion where its guidance can be easily changed by human beings according to what we prefer and reject?
A religion where we believe to be a god was a human beings?
A religion that forgiveness of sin can be gotten by a human being?
A religion where we have to suffer in order to receive something good in return?
A religion where you sometimes feels isn't logical?
Everyone need a religion. Need to believe there is god.
Without god you will feel very empty and believe that there is no purpose in life.
We sometimes replace god with human loves but we are very clear that it is not certain and can be easily swayed.
So which is the true religion?
Islam is the true religion. Allah s.w.t. is the only god that creates us all and everything else we see. Al-Quran is the book of Islam where its content provide us with guidance and its contents will never be altered and it is not contradicting. Prophet Muhammad s.a.w. is the last messenger of Allah s.w.t. to help us see the correct path.
Read the Al-Quran to see the truth yourself.
So which is the true religion?
A religion where its guidance can be easily changed by human beings according to what we prefer and reject?
A religion where we believe to be a god was a human beings?
A religion that forgiveness of sin can be gotten by a human being?
A religion where we have to suffer in order to receive something good in return?
A religion where you sometimes feels isn't logical?
Everyone need a religion. Need to believe there is god.
Without god you will feel very empty and believe that there is no purpose in life.
We sometimes replace god with human loves but we are very clear that it is not certain and can be easily swayed.
So which is the true religion?
Islam is the true religion. Allah s.w.t. is the only god that creates us all and everything else we see. Al-Quran is the book of Islam where its content provide us with guidance and its contents will never be altered and it is not contradicting. Prophet Muhammad s.a.w. is the last messenger of Allah s.w.t. to help us see the correct path.
Read the Al-Quran to see the truth yourself.
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Thursday, May 7, 2009
Jesus Christ aka Nabi Isa
First, he is a human being.
Second, he preached god's words. Allah s.w.t. word.
Third, he is not the son of god or god.
Fourth, when he is still alive, whatever he preached was left on deaf ears and not followed.
Fifth, when he died, Nabi Isa was made to be Jesus Christ the son of god who he was not.
Sixth, when he died, everything he preached was all manipulated and altered.
Do yourself a favour, read the bible and the Quran. Do a comparison.
Follow what Nabi Isa aka Jesus really preached which is Islam.
Second, he preached god's words. Allah s.w.t. word.
Third, he is not the son of god or god.
Fourth, when he is still alive, whatever he preached was left on deaf ears and not followed.
Fifth, when he died, Nabi Isa was made to be Jesus Christ the son of god who he was not.
Sixth, when he died, everything he preached was all manipulated and altered.
Do yourself a favour, read the bible and the Quran. Do a comparison.
Follow what Nabi Isa aka Jesus really preached which is Islam.
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Wednesday, May 6, 2009
God Exist
Have you ever asked yourself whether god really exist?
Well it is a good question. The answer is an obvious Yes.
How do I know?
All you have to do is to look around you and ask yourself who is powerful enough to be able to build the earth and its content. And not only that, how about the other planets.
Everything is so perfectly in order with air containing oxygen to breath, water that can be drink as well sun for plants to grow and light.
Obviously it is not us that build the whole wide world, it is not man made. We can't even protect and preserve it properly for the future generations.
Believing in god and it existence will a be start to believe in what God guide us to do.
If you ever felt in doubt, no matter what your religion are, all you have to do is to pray hard so that you will be given the guidance and the correct path.
Well it is a good question. The answer is an obvious Yes.
How do I know?
All you have to do is to look around you and ask yourself who is powerful enough to be able to build the earth and its content. And not only that, how about the other planets.
Everything is so perfectly in order with air containing oxygen to breath, water that can be drink as well sun for plants to grow and light.
Obviously it is not us that build the whole wide world, it is not man made. We can't even protect and preserve it properly for the future generations.
Believing in god and it existence will a be start to believe in what God guide us to do.
If you ever felt in doubt, no matter what your religion are, all you have to do is to pray hard so that you will be given the guidance and the correct path.
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Hair Colouring for Muslim
But do you know that normal hair coloring product are not permitted to be worm by Muslim. Well not that it contain anything not halal(but if it is, it will be one of the issue) but for the fact that It does not penetrate into the hair shaft and will coat our hair instead.
Example of the said hair coloring will be the semi - permanent type.
This will make it impossible for water to pass through the color coated hair for our wudhuk for prayers/ablution or for Muslim "compulsory bath" under certain reason like after period.
Proper ablution needed for our prayer to be accepted and right.
Alternative will be henna.
Reference on this matter.
Example of the said hair coloring will be the semi - permanent type.
This will make it impossible for water to pass through the color coated hair for our wudhuk for prayers/ablution or for Muslim "compulsory bath" under certain reason like after period.
Proper ablution needed for our prayer to be accepted and right.
Alternative will be henna.
Reference on this matter.
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Tuesday, May 5, 2009
Fashionable Girl
I really like to see the Muslim girls' fashion nowadays. It comes with different styles and colors. But of course what is important is to cover our aurat.
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Monday, May 4, 2009
Islam, tradition and Modern world
I come to learn that a lot of people claim that Islam is not anymore relevant to be apply to this modern world....
This is very sad to hear as this is very different from what I know Islam is.
I'm a very modern girl and live in other part of the world and not where Islam origin.
It is versatile and never out of season or fashion.
What is important is for us to hold our belief strongly regardless of location and time as Islam is very easy to be apply in our daily life.
It is only us that make it hard.
Learn about your religion and you will see that it is a very reasonable religion where it provide you with a lot of space to simplify things.
But what is really important is not to take matters into our own hand. We should always consult with the ulama or imam if we are not clear on certain issues. Don't bend the guidance according to our own preference and only take what is only likable to you.
This is very sad to hear as this is very different from what I know Islam is.
I'm a very modern girl and live in other part of the world and not where Islam origin.
It is versatile and never out of season or fashion.
What is important is for us to hold our belief strongly regardless of location and time as Islam is very easy to be apply in our daily life.
It is only us that make it hard.
Learn about your religion and you will see that it is a very reasonable religion where it provide you with a lot of space to simplify things.
But what is really important is not to take matters into our own hand. We should always consult with the ulama or imam if we are not clear on certain issues. Don't bend the guidance according to our own preference and only take what is only likable to you.
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Sunday, May 3, 2009
Mikaeel Michael Jackson revert to Islam
Is it true??????
Whether it is true or otherwise, it is very clear that most of the non-Muslim would be very likely to revert to Islam wherever they are searching for inner peace and help them in times of trouble......I hope that if he really is reverting(which is a good thing for him), it will be out of sincerity but of course let Allah s.w.t be the judge of it.
Other Icon that revert to Islam under the sort of same situation:
- Malcolm X
- Tawana Brawley
- Benjamin Chavis
- John Allen Muhammad
- Henry Tillman
- Mike Tyson
- James Ujaama
The reason why Allah s.w.t create variety/differences is to complement each other and learn from one another and not for us to degrade others, group yourself according to classes or alienate ourself from the rest of the world because of the differences.
For instance look at rainbow>>>>>>>>
It is beautiful because it contain and consist of different colors. Rainbow with only one color will definitely be very dull and boring.
And that is how happy we will be if we learn to accept each other without being judgmental.
For me, religion is a faith where it can provide me with proper comprehensive guidance, it is reliable, true, relevance and able to give inner peace wherever I'm near it.
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Saturday, May 2, 2009
Tears of Pophet Muhammad s.a.w.
Do you know that our Prophet Muhammad s.a.w. will cry every time a non-Muslim dies?
It is a sad thing when our fellow non-Muslim friend dies before reverting back to Islam.
Play our part by portraying the best part of being a Muslim so that we can attract them to see the beauty of Islam.
It is a sad thing when our fellow non-Muslim friend dies before reverting back to Islam.
Play our part by portraying the best part of being a Muslim so that we can attract them to see the beauty of Islam.
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Friday, May 1, 2009
Polygamy class
Now again I will like to emphasis that Islam in no way encourage polygamy but only permit it for a few reasons.
So we ( man and especially woman) have to accept it because the rules of Islam is perfect my dear Muslim. It is only us who flaw it by not practicing it correctly.
It is one of the genius guidelines provided by Islam that come with a "syarat" or we can called rules before a guy can have a polygamy marriage.
Other religion always like to play around with the idea of polygamy to say that Islam encourage polygamy. But the main idea of it is to get the situation of man having affairs behind their wife backs under control. This to avoid adultery and having illegitimate child.
To make matters worse is when your illegitimate child accidentally marry your child with your other woman. It is haram and scientifically proven not healthy for their future child because of the high similarity of the couple genes.
Only man with enough knowledge on polygamy, understand and can practice it, can do polygamy.
If there is even a TINY DOUBT in the man's heart that he can't be fair(in all ways) to all his wives>>>> then he cannot practice polygamy. Islam also always emphasis on monogamous marriage.
The reality is that it is really hard to even be fair to one wife.
SO now>>>> my suggestion is>>>>to get man who wanted to marry more than one to get into a class educating on every aspect of polygamy.
Better>>>>>get all men to attend class about polygamy even before they get married. So that they will understand the whole principles of it and guidelines of polygamy and marriage.
So we ( man and especially woman) have to accept it because the rules of Islam is perfect my dear Muslim. It is only us who flaw it by not practicing it correctly.
It is one of the genius guidelines provided by Islam that come with a "syarat" or we can called rules before a guy can have a polygamy marriage.
Other religion always like to play around with the idea of polygamy to say that Islam encourage polygamy. But the main idea of it is to get the situation of man having affairs behind their wife backs under control. This to avoid adultery and having illegitimate child.
To make matters worse is when your illegitimate child accidentally marry your child with your other woman. It is haram and scientifically proven not healthy for their future child because of the high similarity of the couple genes.
Only man with enough knowledge on polygamy, understand and can practice it, can do polygamy.
If there is even a TINY DOUBT in the man's heart that he can't be fair(in all ways) to all his wives>>>> then he cannot practice polygamy. Islam also always emphasis on monogamous marriage.
The reality is that it is really hard to even be fair to one wife.
SO now>>>> my suggestion is>>>>to get man who wanted to marry more than one to get into a class educating on every aspect of polygamy.
Better>>>>>get all men to attend class about polygamy even before they get married. So that they will understand the whole principles of it and guidelines of polygamy and marriage.
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