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Friday, May 1, 2009

Polygamy class

Now again I will like to emphasis that Islam in no way encourage polygamy but only permit it for a few reasons.

So we ( man and especially woman) have to accept it because the rules of Islam is perfect my dear Muslim. It is only us who flaw it by not practicing it correctly.

It is one of the genius guidelines provided by Islam that come with a "syarat" or we can called rules before a guy can have a polygamy marriage.

Other religion always like to play around with the idea of polygamy to say that Islam encourage polygamy. But the main idea of it is to get the situation of man having affairs behind their wife backs under control. This to avoid adultery and having illegitimate child.

To make matters worse is when your illegitimate child accidentally marry your child with your other woman. It is haram and scientifically proven not healthy for their future child because of the high similarity of the couple genes.

Only man with enough knowledge on polygamy, understand and can practice it, can do polygamy.

If there is even a TINY DOUBT in the man's heart that he can't be fair(in all ways) to all his wives>>>> then he cannot practice polygamy. Islam also always emphasis on monogamous marriage.

The reality is that it is really hard to even be fair to one wife.

SO now>>>> my suggestion is>>>>to get man who wanted to marry more than one to get into a class educating on every aspect of polygamy.

Better>>>>>get all men to attend class about polygamy even before they get married. So that they will understand the whole principles of it and guidelines of polygamy and marriage.

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