The Right Time to Say "I do"

When is it exactly?????

Can anyone tell me....
I believe that gender will also be one of the factor to determine the answer to that question.

General answer I will commonly get is>>>>>
For man>>>>It does not matter, the older the better. Enjoy your life first before you get married.
For woman>>>Don't wait till you reach 30 yrs old.....

The reality>>>>Couple get married regardless of how old they are. They get married when they meet the right person or when they think that it is "the time" and they can no longer afford to wait.

As a result, a lot of couple jump into the "marriage" because of the wrong reason, without rationalization and without sufficient knowledge about it thus it will most likely to end with the big "D". Which is a sad sad thing to hear.

Ouch, it hurt!!!!

So now, back to the question>>>>when is the right time?????

I still don't know.
And i don't really think that there will ever be only ONE RIGHT time to get married. You get married, when you get married.

But whats important here is to bear in mind of each individual to not make "marriage" as a mere piece of contract.

It should be taken more seriously and the letter "D" should never cross your mind EVER.

Remember that the same exact reason to not get a divorce is the very same reason why you are married to one another at the first place. But of course if the reason involves anything violent/dangerous, just walk out of it.

P.S. : But the right time for me will be at the age of 30+ yrs......